Your child has graduated from high school and is now on their way to starting college. You might think that at this point, your role in the education of your child is over. After all, college is about independence and letting them finding their own way in the world, ensuring that they make mistakes so they can learn from them. Hopefully, this helps them become well-rounded individuals. However, even when they leave for college, you can still help your kids if they are struggling and you’d be surprised how many parents do this for their kids. It’s quite rare for students to be completely independent even with their studies at a college level.
Help Them Develop Study Methods
A lot of people don’t learn in the conventional way. Schooling is based around the idea of memory and recollection purely by learning the facts and putting them into practice. This continues at a college level, but it’s not the way that all students learn. As such, it might be worth helping your child find the right method for them. For instance, some students are far better at learning subconsciously, listening to information playing through headphones as they sleep. You might want to float this idea with your own college student.
Handling The Summer Drought
At summer and winter breaks, kids often return home from college and leave the study structure behind. It’s quite common for students to completely fail to study over the long summer breaks. As such, if they are coming home, it wouldn’t be a bad idea to push them to remember their studies and fit some time in through the day. If you don’t do this, by the time they return to college, their grades could have dropped substantially.
Give Them The Tools They Need
You need to be aware of the tools that could help your kids through the college years so that you can recommend that they use them. According to www.surveyssay.com, there are plenty of sites offer the answers, information, and notes on different questions that relate to various college courses. You might think that once they start studying a higher degree, they are at a level beyond your understanding. You’re no longer at the age where they can come to you with help with trigonometry. And while this is true, they might still ring you to talk about their troubles with studies. Wouldn’t it be great if you could show them a resource that could help them, even when you can’t?
Show Your Pride
Finally, you should let your kids know that you are proud of them when they reach college level and encourage them to keep moving forward. Believe it or not, often this is all a kid needs to reach their maximum academic potential and get the best grades through the college years. It could be the difference between them finishing with a fantastic grade and one that just about lets them continue along their career path. You learn more about helping students achieve their full potential on www.hbr.org.
So you see, your job as a parent doesn’t simply grind to a halt after your kids leave for college.
The number of prescriptions for psychotropic drugs for children has more than doubled between 1995 and 2000. This revealing documentary by Gary Null details the devastating consequences of this excessive medicating of our children with mind-altering drugs.
The film focuses on children who have been diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), even though evidence to verify such a diagnosis is lacking.
Instead, kids are often labeled with ADHD simply for acting like kids: fidgeting, speaking out of turn, not wanting to sit still, and being hyper.
The diagnosis of ADHD is often made based on anecdotal evidence and standardized assessments from parents and teachers, without giving consideration to other potential factors like home life, diet, and environmental toxins.
The end result for kids diagnosed with ADHD, as the video shows, is almost always medications.
If you’ve ever wondered why kids were rarely committing suicide or violent acts in schools when YOU were growing up, this essential video may shed some insight.
Dr. Mercola's Comments:
I urge you to devote some time to watching The Drugging of Our Children.
This is a film that everyone with children should see.
You may have noticed the back-to-school themed advertisements for ADHD drugs that came out just in time for parents and teachers to begin questioning which students will “need” these medications.
This is a carefully timed marketing scheme aimed at selling more of these potent drugs, such as Ritalin, to your children -- and the marketing works. Many adolescent psychiatrists report that there is a sharp increase in prescriptions for ADHD drugs when kids start the school year.
Some drug companies are even marketing candy-flavored versions of these drugs.
It’s no wonder that drugs for ADHD bring in about $1 billion in sales every year.
It is ironic that children are urged not to take drugs when it comes to the illegal variety, but are readily supplied with mind-altering medications as long as they are FDA-approved.
However, health professionals prescribe these drugs without warning parents about the severe and potentially fatal side effects (psychotic symptoms, headaches, insomnia, hallucinations, cardiac arrhythmia).
Many of the drugs used to treat ADHD are not only potentially hazardous, but they are unnecessary if your child is treated appropriately.
How to Treat ADHD Naturally
There are plenty of safe, effective alternatives for treating this condition, and some particularly effective methods include:
Using plenty of animal-based omega-3 fats like krill oil.
Spending more time in nature.
Balancing your intake of omega-3 and omega-6 fats (from vegetables oils).
Avoiding processed foods, especially those containing artificial colors, flavors, and preservatives, which may trigger ADHD symptoms.
Replacing soft drinks, fruit juices, and pasteurized milk in your diet with pure water.
Reducing or eliminating grains and sugars from your diet.
For parents out there, I realize that many decide to put their children on a psychotropic drug because they believe it will help them. There can also be extreme pressure to do so, with some public schools even accusing parents of child abuse when they resist giving their kids drugs such as Ritalin.
What you need to know, and spread the word about, is that:
These drugs are potent (Ritalin is more potent than cocaine) and produce long-term changes in your child’s brain
They cause serious side effects
ADHD is almost always related to dietary and environmental factors, and can be cured by making the appropriate changes (outlined above)